nodaybut2day,
you pretty much hit the nail on the head. i'd have to say that, generally, you are right on the money. but, i would also add to that "should i leave?"... I know, I know, dumb question!! But I am SO TORN! I think my heart understands what my head is saying, but is not quite on the same page. When I look at it on paper, the answer is obvious to me- leave! But then I think about HIM and his sweetness and his loving nature, and oh god, I'm going to start crying at my desk!!!!!
Did I mention that he just quit his job of 19 years to BUY A BUSINESS?? How in the world do I leave him when he just made such a huge, life-changing decision?? I must be a horrible person!!
I know that I'm not really a horrible person, but geez, it does seem a little cruel, doesn't it?