Thank you. It just seemed that he was really bad mouthing the Al-anon group calling them self righteous and just pretty much being really disrespectful and dismissing the importance of the meeting so that he could ramble on about AA. Personally, I feel excited to be working both programs and find that they both are helping me even if I've only been to two of each. I did try to ask one of the ladies there if she thought it was a bad idea to work both and she didn't really know what to say, but she said she thinks it could work.. Sooo hmmm... maybe I'll find someone else to ask? I feel like if I ask anyone from AA they are going to tell me to just do AA.