Originally Posted by
cambi 
As some of you know, I moved out with my daughter, leaving my AH to fend for himself.
So now AH is moving in with us for the next two weeks til he finds a new place and gets his money back. Uggggh.
I've made it very clear that he has to find another place to live--he gets it. It's just so hard as I was finally making a life for myself, and now it's thrown off track again.
Ugh, ugh, ugh.
Pardon me in advance for being blunt, but try not to be real surprised if you have a bit more drama in the next two weeks.
And to read that last boldfaced statement, it seems as if you don't see
your part in this.
We codependents are masters at evading responsibility for our actions, just like the alcoholics/addicts in our lives.
I know I've done that
many times in the past.