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Old 10-31-2010, 09:13 AM
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LexieCat
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I think what gets us the most about those kinds of lies is that we want to scream, "Do I look STUPID or WHAT??" It's the sheer lameness that gets me. Insulting to our intelligence.

I can't believe he had the nerve to ask the neighbor for "help"--is the neighbor a big drinker who sympathizes?

Yelling and starting a fight are not good options. As for making him sleep on the sofa, what is it you would be "punishing" him for? The drinking or the lying? Either one is a symptom of his alcoholism, and doesn't affect you directly, though it impacts your confidence in his recovery, which might lead you to rethink staying in the relationship.

I think you could calmly tell him that you don't believe his story, that it makes no sense, and leave it at that.
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