Thanks, you two. I think you're exactly right--I've been trying to deal with the big stuff and I never thought this little thing would set me off.
On the big stuff, I'm frustrated because, like cambi, my AH isn't demonstrating any progress toward getting sober. He's not even going to AA meetings. When he did go to AA meetings here, he just bought alcohol afterwards. So I feel like I'm just waiting around for a breakup a few months down the road.
Oh, and this weekend is our anniversary, which makes things even better.