Thanks girls.
the "move out" will happen on Monday, due to the fact that everyone who is going to be my support is busy with halloween stuff on sunday.
monday may be a better day for him to show up at the shelter, i hope.
i am glad that you are here.
i am trying to keep my self-respect "inflated" so I can see things as I should.
i feel good about this decision, but it hurts so very much, too. and it is scary for me and for him, i am sure.
feel it is the only sane thing to do. not much of a choice for him, but sane anyway.
he probably does not see it as sane, or does he?
hugs,
chicory