Old 10-29-2010, 10:26 PM
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Michelle70
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thanks for the 'Aha' moment!

I have learned in my recovery that sharing my concern and feelings one time is my way of communicating with another. If I find myself repeating the information, I am trying to control or manipulate the other person.

I know that wasn't the main idea of your post, but I can't tell you how enlightening that is for me in my particular case. I won't change the subject of this thread, but wanted to say "Thank you, thank you, thank you" for that bit of wisdom.
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