Originally Posted by
Itchy 
Just remember he isn't perfect any more than we are. I can't count the times I told my wife that I needed to quit drinking and was going to, and broke those promises to myself and her. Thank goodness she forgave me my goofs, as it all is working out in the end. The important thing is your sobriety. Take a few deep breaths and cut yourself a sprout too.
ITA. My husband has been atypically thoughtless twice in the past few days (not drinking related) and I got upset in my head but talked myself down. Because in the 8 years he's endured my alcoholism... I was nothing but thoughtless, 90% of the time. So now suddenly I'm giving 110% and I expect him to snap to it? Not fair, IMO.
I know your situation is different but somewhat comparable, I think. In the early days of recovery when we're so uber-focused on things. It's kind of hard to keep perspective, I think.