Originally Posted by
theuncertainty 
You're not evil. You're an amazing woman and a great mom! Please don't be so hard on yourself about being happy to have more distance between you and XAH. I think it's only normal to be happy about having more space to work on our own recovery and focus on ourselves and children. It's incredibly hard to do either when an A is in the picture.
I consider my axw moving 4 hours away as one of my HP's greatest gifts.
I don't feel one speck "evil". After all, I didn't cause/make her move away, it's what she needed to do to protect her disease. I consider it just a happy twist of fate.
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote