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keepinon I beg to differ with kikis suggestions. Chicory HAS taken him to counseling..she HAS considered that there is something beyond his alcoholism.He is almost 40 years old and can talk to the therapists himself and seek HIS OWN recovery.She has done much more than is good for her to do.She is finally ready to LET HIM GO and have the dignity of living his own life.In my opinion Chicory..backing off completely is the best thing for both of you.Trying to manipulate the situation defeats the purpose.It is his choice where he goes,what opportunities he utilizes, and how actively he wants to participate in bettering his life. Chicory..you've done what you could..I encourage you to stick with your plan
I don't mean he has to know she's involved. But maybe with her information they can better asses what he needs.
If there's more than just alcoholism to deal with, he may need extra assistance. It would be good for them to know.