You know, the funny thing about this thread is that I go to church, believe in God, but don't find the "traditional method" all that helpful and in fact feel that many of the precepts conflict with what I was taught in my christian upbringing. I find a great deal of helpful info here!
I have looked at SMART, and sometimes check their online forum. I've also done a CBA, and need to re-do it since I am starting over again (4 days, whoop whoop).
I have a bunch of books too, and think I'll read Carr's EasyWay book. I think that after hearing what other people have posted on another thread that it might help to change my mind about drinking. Kinda like I changed my mind about smoking and various drugs (the thought of certain drugs that I used in the past and cigarettes make me cringe and feel nauseous).