Originally Posted by
Austinchica 
Can I just show up and show him how well I am doing ? My new job, my confidence, some cool things hemissed out on ? Or is that reacting ? I want him to see that I didn't crumble when he left me . Is this really the opposite of serenity ?
I think the best way to show him all that stuff is to say you're not interested in 'hanging out' right now... maybe some other time.
I think my main motivation is to get his apology and to show him that I did not need him ,
Uh...did he say he wanted to apologize or that he 'just wanted to hang out'. Why are you expecting an apology?
I did not fail like he said I would, and I didn't run after him either. I did fine by myself for my daughter and I want him to know that. Is that ok ? Or part of a pattern ? ......I'm imagining us talking about all of my accomplishments like they would even matter .
See Live's quote below for your answer to this one...
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Live the more someone tells me how they have got it going on, the less I believe them.
Why does it matter what he thinks of you?