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Old 10-27-2010, 05:13 PM
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seekingcalm
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Sorry that you are having to go through this. Glad you are here and posting and reading.

In my experience, when presented with an ultimatum, an alcoholic may very well go to AA. My exabf is really a sweetheart too. Smart, funny, thoughtful, and very helpful around the house. But when presented with "it's me or AA"...he went to AA, twice a day, but drank in secret.

I think it's got to be their idea. The only thing we have control over really is what we do. Take care of you, and your children. Things will start to get better for you when you do that.

Sending positive thoughts your way...
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