last night on my walk, i ran into an old friend who too had cheated with my xABF...hadn't seen her in a long time...she said "hi naive"...and i gave her a mouthful. ugh.
That's my favorite. I had one of those. I went to her house at 6am one morning after I found out and threatened to "destroy" her if she ever came near me again. I was out of my mind. What? Did I think I was Darth Vader?
I hope you gave that piece of trash what for. Then went merrily on your way. Clear boundaries with sociopaths, that's my motto.
As far as my husbands affair being the best thing that ever happened-AMEN. I learned how to focus on myself. Am learning rather..