Originally Posted by
MissFixit 
I understand your frustration, but you know as well as I do that her business isn't yours. I too would feel tempted. You are human.
What are the ramifications to the bff?
Who knows? Her sponsor was pissed, I'm guessing she was pissed at me.
The codie in me would say something like 'maybe it was for the best' as if anything I said could change anything, and mitigating my own responsibility.
Shouldn't have said anything.
I would assume that possibly her sponsor-who's pretty level headed and has a lot of time-would approach her sponsee on the subject but not sure how that would work out, and it really isn't any of my business.
I guess in a perfect codie world the bff would have an epiphany, get up in front of the group and apologize, and finally get it.
In my dreams......