Shouldn't have
But before I left Detroit several weeks back, I 'outed' my ex's girlfriend/bff/drinking/using buddy.
Revenge, pure and simple, she'd been attending AA meetings, my home group actually, for a period of time, it wasn't 'taking'-per my ex-around the middle of August she got hammered, per what the ex told me-she was there apparently-at a Kid Rock concert, then collected her one year token at the regular open meeting at the end of the month.
So I went to the Friday night meeting the day before I left town-she wasn't attending, out hanging out in the bar with my ex-and walked up to her sponsor and ratted her out.
I apologized to her sponsor afterward, it was none of my business, and I can't even claim good motives, it was revenge, pure and simple.