I am actually going to mediation tomorrow. We both have lawyers, but I think this will work out better this way. (I make a lot of money. He makes, well not much. And I'm not going to just take it, although I do hope I don't get totally screwed.)
We shall see, I guess.
Wish me luck. I'm not exactly nervous per se, more just antsy to get it over with. It's taken nearly 8 months to get to this point. I think he actually needed that time to let it all sink in, but still. I am ready to get this over with.
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