Originally Posted by
jennander1 
I do not want my children to have an alcoholic as a father... but they already do, it will be something that he will battle for the rest of his life. I know that, and I am here to support him, he just does not want to admit that anything is wrong.
I felt the same way. What I didn't realize at the time was, as long as he didn't want sobriety, and I was 'supporting' him, I was supporting his alcoholism.
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