Dear Jennander1,
You wrote "(although the doctor may want to take him early since there seems to be minor complications due to the baby being to small... the doctor is worried about him being stillborn). I am scared, anxious, and very stressed that I am going to go into labor and my husband will be to intoxicated to drive me or be of any support at all." I strongly recommend you talk to your doctor about your stressful and emotionally upsetting situation ASAP! This stressful situation could be causing some of your pregnancy problems. Your doctor needs to know this information, and by reaching out to him, he should be able to give you some helpful advice and assistance. I know all to well that we as codependents have learned to keep our "family secrets". Please consider this as helping your unborn child and your little daughter.
Remember, God is still in control! You will be in my prayers!