Thanks L2L.
Reading what you just wrote brought tears to my eyes...don't know why yet. Will have to think about it. I just wonder why OP felt as though he had to hold is own? Could it be because he felt attacked? And exactly, it's all about perspective. I understand that. We all see things in our own way. Because I felt upset reading this thread, I posted the thread on Shame and Blame. I'll begin to post more, slowly but surely and I'm grateful to be here. Thanks again.