Originally Posted by
Still Waters 
Speaking harshly or belittling them based on the little we know of the situation is uncalled for and certainly not in the spirit of recovery (as I know it).
Therefore, she is amongst scum in my opinion
That was
harsh, in my opinion.
Nothing that followed the
original post was anywhere near as harsh as that particular statement. Not even close.
But going back to my original posts-and just about all of the others I read here-the advice offered was standard advice that I read over and over again, here and elsewhere.
The truth may be harsh, but living in a fantasy can be infinitely harsher in the end, when the individual finally wakes up and realizes they've been living in a dream world.