Originally Posted by
chicory 
Thanks rolltide.
since he is my son, (38) i wont leave my home, but will have to get him out.
i just want to know how to maintain my sanity, and control myself.
oh, i guess you are saying there is no way to maintain sanity, except to leave?
For me to regain my sanity meant I had to be away from my XAH drinking. I could no longer be around it. Since he had moved into my house then he had to leave. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do but I simply had no other choice. And I know that every situation is different.