I have "Primary Care and Control" of the children and he has visitation "on average twice weekly". This is what we agreed to with lawyers years ago. Things have gotten much worse since this agreement was made. I enforced Supervised Visitation on my own and he didn't fight me on it. He doesn't have any family here that can help. I have suggested a couple of his friends that I know but he has reasons that they can't help. Claims the only person who can help is his girlfriend. I have let it be her up until the last couple of months when I knew things were getting worse as far as drinking.
More recently I suggested public places as long as my 16 year old wanted to go. This really meant short lunch or supper visits and maybe shopping for an hour.
Time to make the appointment with the lawyer I think. I've talked to one a few times over the last few weeks and I think I have to make an appointment and have a letter drafted. Time to make sure his alcoholism is documented.
Ugggg