I would stop giving him money, paying his bills, buying his gas and groceries, and doing any other thing that a grown adult is capable of doing for himself. If he wants to be mad, I would let him sit in his unpaid-for apartment and be mad all by himself. I would take the money I would have given him and go shopping with a girlfriend tonight, and buy myself a wonderful new dress and pair of shoes, and a nice book. Then I would go home, lock all the doors and windows, unplug the telephone, and run a hot bubble bath. Then I would soak in it, put on my cozy pajamas and climb into bed tonight and read my new book and go to sleep.