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Old 10-21-2010, 06:29 PM
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I hear you about not wanting to sit in the victim role, however alcoholism is a family disease and it does effect you and that makes you another victim of alcoholism.

Perhaps if you can identify those things which hurt you or didn't agree with your needs from a marriage you may be able to resolve some of the pain. Then let it go as part of the grieving process.

Divorce is horribly painful.
My impulse is to skip over the pain part but it always charges me my due.
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