Originally Posted by
sugardaddy 
true. We have talked about her meetings, it's difficult to not want to help. That is just my nature.
I tend to help people or at least try to but still I try to reinforce one idea in my mind: You do no one any favors by solving their problems for them. A lot of time the help offered is to solve their problems to remove my own unease with their situation. By solving problems they are capable of learning how to solve themselves I am depriving them of the strength they would gain.