I found an inner strength and calm I did not know I possessed when I told my AH I was leaving. Maybe L2L is right, mom power?!
I walked into the living room where my AH was watching TV. I calmly asked him if he would turn down the TV volume so I could speak to him a minute.
He did.
I told him that I was leaving him.
calmly.
A question from him
A calm reply from me
A smart arse remark from him
And I exited the room as the TV volume went back up.
(((Hugs)))