Originally Posted by
turtlegirl70 
Also seeing my 7 year old daughter crying under the computer desk is a real eye opener
This should have been an eye opener and the closing deal on this whole mess for you.
Your kids are being abused by your husband and as long as he is the way he is the future of your children is in real danger.
The cycle will continue with your kids if they are allowed to be in this toxic environment.
My question to you is what good is there in this relationship if he is not a loving father and husband, has no job and is nothing but abusive to both you and your kids?