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turtlegirl70 Hi,
I know I can't change him, and I am actually realizing it may be time to leave him. Kids do love him but they have accepted his behavior as normal which breaks my heart. [B]From your experiences, do potheads ever bottom out?[B] Whenever I have talked to a professional they always say "well pot usually doesn't make one act like that" and friends minimize it because "everyone smokes pot". I am not sure if it really is pot or not but all I know is that he is not capable of actuallizing goals and just wants to sit around all day and he is a moody mess and I am sick of it. Thank you.
I think you are on the right track, Turtlegirl.
With all the chemicals in pot these days, it may be doing a nasty number on his brain chemistry..
Pot was my doc I think there is a whole lot going on with this individual that you can't affect...he has changed horses but he is still an addict who hasn't hit bottom
yet...
I would say, time for tough love, listen to your instincts, remove the kids and let him fall.