Hi Hurt,
Well yes, you have to try another meeting. Even call to see if there are any that might be more geared to your situation. In the meantime, you have SR. Other husbands and dads from all over to be your buddies.
Do you know what is going on in her house now? Is she drinking? how is the little one?
She is fine, she is getting to drink probably, so that is WONDERFUL!
I suppose at this stage, you just have to take some time to relax and enjoy the peace. You probably should avoid any relationships for a bit. Just work away and enjoy spending time with your little one. you are "off the case" so to speak. Do make sure, that the other child is getting taken care of. Call child services and have them check on the child. I really do not mean that maliciously, I just think you are still the other parent and you are a big boy able to mind yourself, the kid, not.
Have a good week and Halloween is coming, go dress up and be silly! Hugs