How long was he drinking before he stopped and started going to AA? If it was any period of length, you have learned not to trust him. While he was drinking, I'm sure, he gave you reasons to know he was drinking. Personally I can smell almost any kind of beer or liquor on their breath. I agree with the other responses if he has started drinking again, he won't be able to hide it from you for very long. Right now you only suspect he might be drinking which to me means he's not showing any of the obnoxious stinking thinking. Hopefully, you just might be expecting the other shoe to drop.
Stop focusing so much on your recovering alcoholic. Start focusing on yourself. Continue attending Alanon meetings and participating on SR.
It's really hard for God to guide you if you keep running out ahead of him!!
