[QUOTE=seekingcalm;2740356]Listen to your gut...your instincts will not fail you. Alcoholics lie, and they try to hide their drinking from us because they want to maintain the status quo.
Their actions often do not coincide with their words or promises. You don't need physical proof to know what you know.
My ex-abf went to 2 meetings a day, and hid his drinking. Fell asleep on the couch..said "Can't a person be tired?" I had no proof, but I knew. So do you.
You've been through this before, you know the difference. Whether or not he is drinking...what are you going to do to take care of you?[/QUOTE]
I need to keep the above in mind at all times. Being an optimist is not helpful when dealing with an AH.