Thank you all so much. I am feeling a bit more confident in my position. All has been quiet today after the flurry of emails on Friday. Not sure what that means. Most likely he is stewing somewhere hating that I may actually have some control over this situation. He still has it stuck in his head that this is all "punishment" for his affair. I am sooo beyond that at this point. I know he will get what is coming to him at some point and it will be delivered by someone far greater than me. Most days now, I am thankful that he handed me this opportunity to live a more productive, connected, and positive life. We were wasting so much of our lives accomodating him and his wants and needs. I just wish we were further along this process.