"Whether or not he is drinking...what are you going to do to take care of you?"
Nothing unfortunately other than praying for a miracle. I know that I need to, but I keep asking myself "how" and "when"? I work full-time, have 2 young kids. I just don't know how to move forward and accept that me and my kids would be better off without AH in our lives right now. I don't know how to live with him and more so I don't know how to live without him.
"What would confronting him accomplish?"
I'm not sure what confronting him would accomplish and I struggle to answer this question. I guess part of me just hates the dishonesty and hiding of the alcoholism, so I feel a bit better when I can get the truth out in the open. Maybe part of me still hopes that I can help him fight this disease although deep down I know that is not possible.