Let's just say hypothetically that you do find physical evidence that he has indeed been drinking. What would confronting him accomplish?
You said you've been through this before.
His behavior reeks of 'not right.'
It appears to me that he has had no true 'recovery' since he threw nine years away.
The interlock device, not going to a meeting because supposedly he'd stop at the gas station-these are not a solution to his disease.
You have no control over what he does.
You
do have control over what you do with your life.
Live in the solution, not the problem.
As long as you hinge your reality off of him and what he is/isn't doing, you're living in the problem.
