I'm not sure what you are expecting of an active alcoholic, to be honest.
You do realize that her drinking is only a symptom, right?
Are you okay with a drunk driving with your children in the car?
What's top on your priority list...her keeping the house in order, you keeping tabs on who she's with and where she's at, or the safety and emotional well-being of your children?
You can try and assign blame to alcohol or whatever when it comes to her behaviors.
In the meantime,
you still have an active alcoholic in your life and your children's life. We can't find a solution if we're still living in the problem.
