He is here
I come home from my errands and there he (he is sober, not hungover even, just upset) is, sitting on the couch. The only chance that we have to stay together and be healthy is if he gets treatment and maintains sober living. I asked him if he decided and he said he hadn't. He isn't ready to see or understand the pain he causes with "one pint of vodka". He is trying to make me feel guilty "why are you picking on me?", "stop putting me down." and so on. My reply was how am I picking on you, I'm just calling out your BS. I will not be made to feel guilt. I did not buy, drink, or hide vodka. UGH!!!
Thank you for letting me vent.