Originally Posted by
fighter1010 
He just got done blaming me for not working this out, that i'm making this choice. he is very manipulative and very good at throwing the guilt at me
Heck yeah you are making this choice! Own it and be dang proud of it!
You are taking control of your life and your daughter's life. You are removing the alcoholic drama from your day-to-day living and seeking a better life. Nothing to feel guilty about.
He chose alcohol.
Best to you and your daughter as you continue your recovery journey from active alcoholism.