Trust your "girl" intuition
I tell my daughters to trust their "girl" intuition!! If something does not feel right, it probably isnt!! I am married to an alocholic, he is the most AMAZING, LOVING man I have ever met, UNTIL he drinks. All of the signs where in my face when I married him and I questioned it, but did not listen to my "girl" intuition!
You have lot's of support here!!!