My experience has been that rehabs don't want the patients calling people all the time.They have a very short time there to do the work they need to do. If she is still having drama while in rehab, let the staff there deal with it.It's their job, not yours. I agree with the card and very limited calls for her sake a swell as yours. And if she calls and you don't get right back to her..she will have to sit with her feelings and perhaps figure out a solution on her own..(I am just starting to "get"all this w/ my AD).So..put down the phone tonight and spend some time with your family.