Hi hurt,
you are a bad, bad man!
Just kidding, I do understand that the drunk careless wife is the one the restraining order and eviction are aimed at. And the sober woman you love and married is the one you would like to work with. That actually is an existing paradox. With this kind of situation, the ground is always moving under your feet.
But will you and Coyote stop with the swipes at the sisters already?! Jeeze!
Just keep moving forwars and roll with the punches (manly reference)
hugs