Free: my ex was also doing the on-line affair thing. Seeing the txt pics on his cell, made me feel sorry for my ex that he needed to do that to feel good about himself, seeing that he has so many wonderful traits that he could have honed in on to prove to himself he was worthy of more than this behavior. But his addiction is more powerful than the belief in himself.
The addiction/mental issues just suck the souls right out of the body and suck the souls out of the ones who love them
Recovery and sobiety is the ONLY way out of this!