Originally Posted by
Learn2Live 
When a person "seeks recovery" for someone or something else, IMO, they do not actually seek Recovery. I do not believe a relationship can be healthy with active alcoholism involved.
My question for you is, what has caused this turnaround? You chose the healthier course of action, i.e. Remove the alcoholic from your life. What has happened that has changed your mind? She is THE SAME person she was when you had her evicted.
And have you gone to Al-Anon?
No I haven't gone to al-anon.
Neither have I given up my course of action.
I fully intend to go through with the divorce if she doesn't seek help and get straightened out.
Thing is I haven't told her I want her to straighten up for about 8 months.
I’ve kept my mouth shut and observed,.. when she went off the deep end again she got the boot.
I suppose I’m just grasping at straws.
I have not responded to her e-mail nor do I intend to until after I speak to my lawyer, if he didn't forward my stipulation of treatment prior to counseling then one of us needs to address that issue, if she is ignoring my stipulation then that in itself is all I need to know.