Originally Posted by
pinkflamingo 
I'm thinking about packing him a bag. Making him go to his mom's for a while. That would be rougher for him over there. She's been through this before with family. She didn't want to bail him out.
This sounds like a good start!
Let him know you need time to think. I needed time away from my husband to listen to my inner voice. I needed space away from my husband to focus on what I truly wanted and needed for myself and my children.
Being in the same house with another adult that wanted my attention and energy was too confusing and stressful.
It doesn't mean divorce is imminent, it means you are asking for time and space for yourself. period.