I'm sorry to hear it, Pink. I went back and read your previous posts and it sounds like you could see it coming. We have all been exactly where you are. I bailed mine out and arranged for him to go to rehab. He stayed for 30 days and it didn't even slow him down. NOTHING I did ever made one bit of difference. I've learned that all I can do is to take care of myself. This forum saved my life. I found AlAnon later and it has been another tremendous source of support.