Dear Dm, I just wrote a long reply but it got "lost" but Naive sums it up beautifully and the following posts from Mutuelle and Lexie.
Please walk away now. He has painted the answer in tenfoot high red letters on the wall for you! Go on a holiday with some girlfriends instead of WASTING money on a wedding that at this point in time, and for a very long time would be the biggest mistake of your life!
Last edited by Hollyanne; 10-08-2010 at 06:15 AM.
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