Originally Posted by
boskerbear 
Now that I'm not there tho i do keep worrying about these things, cause no one would discover him for days. He also mentioned to me in a drunken text that he was gonna cook something on the stove. It's a gas stove, what if he leaves it on??
I feel the same way! Every time I don't get a text/call back I assume the worst so I call until he answers and he's fine but then he just wants to talk and be invited back home. That's how he keeps you hanging on to every little interaction. He's exploiting your concern for him because he's so desperate to have you back around and taking care of him.
Stay strong and hopefully your message will get through to him that if he wants another chance with you then he needs to get treatment!