I've been concerned about whether she's been sober enough in the morning for a while now. Lately she hasn't been. I avoid the issue by not waking her up and taking the kids to school myself. Then I walk myself to the bus stop and head to work. On the rare occasion she gets up and is still too hammered to drive I have put my foot down and not allowed her to drive anyone anywhere. It might be best to just make that routine permanent until she gets help...