Originally Posted by
seekingcalm Jack is simply living the consequences that his alcoholic behavior has brought upon him.
He did this.
Seekingcalm is bang on. By trying to protect him from the consequences of his own actions--or by trying to "cushion the fall", you'd be robbing him of the dignity of finally finding his bottom.
Let him taste what a real consequence is like. He's a big boy and it's time he learned about this.
I STRONGLY urge you to cut all ties--romantic, friendly, sexual--with this person. I was married to someone just like him (albeit Jack has better grammar than my XAH), and you need to slam the door in their face *hard* for them to understand that you refuse to be part of their games.
Dallying, you seem to have so much going for you; you're intelligent, kind-hearted, and if that avatar is a pic of you, you're HAWT. Do yourself a favour and stay away from Jack.
Keep posting on SR instead. It's a real party in here