cytagirl, yes they are champions at twisting and turning truth into imagination, and lies into facts.
You can so easily end up totally bewildered and doubting what you saw or heard, after they get thru telling you their side of the story.
I ended up wondering if I really was on this planet.
He sucked you in for such s short time, enough to let you see why NO contact is such a blessing. It stops the loads of codswallop that comes hurtling at us, it stops us being cast back into shame or guilt or whatever nasty they hit us with. It gives peace, and a space to get support, to strengthen ourselves and get these bloodsuckers out of our system.
Thank God, You got it. Now you know and can be aware....be very aware.